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Showing posts with label determination. Show all posts

Prisons of patriarchy

Posted by ABC Saturday, 20 April 2013 0 comments

In the aftermath of the incident of brutal gang rape and subsequent murder of a young girl ‘Nirbhaya’ in Delhi, there was massive outrage and strident demands for stringent laws to convict the perpetrators of barbaric crimes against women and award them deterrent punishment. In response to these humongous protests, the government did wake up and a committee was set up headed by Justice Verma to recommend changes to strengthen the punitive system of our society. The committee did discharge its duties faithfully in a short span of time and for the first time, there was a set of reasoned recommendations, backed by painstaking homework recognising that sexual violence was about power, not sex; and that urged the citizens to stop viewing women as repository of family honour and instead understood sexual violence in terms of an attack on women’s bodily integrity and dignity. The Justice Verma Report was a breath of fresh air, letting in the flowing wind of freedom into all the prisons of patriarchy.

The new law (in which most of the ‘controversial’ issues have been left out), undoubtedly, broadens the definition of sexual violence, recognises stalking, molestation, harassment, acid-throwing and voyeurism as an offence, and introduces harsh punishments, but contains many conflicting issues that militate against women’s autonomy and rights, and protect the impunity of the convict and hence need to be discussed thoroughly.

Firstly, the ordinance makes the perpetrator of rape ‘gender neural’, i.e. both men and women can be accused of rape. This could mean that if a woman garners courage to file a rape complaint against an accused, he has the right to file a counter complaint of rape against her. It seems the new provisions tend to make women even more vulnerable than they are under the existing laws.

Secondly, the ordinance legitimises marital rape and strengthens the idea of commodification of a wife in the hands of her husband. It also retains the provision of lesser sentence (minimum of two years) for a husband who rapes a legally separated wife. So, even if a wife has the audacity to challenge the norms of this patriarchal society and separate herself from an abusive husband, the gray areas of the law can be exploited to undermine the rape complaint and make excuses to get away with harsh punishment.

Thirdly, the ordinance is aimed at branding any sexual contact between young girls (between the age of 16 and 18) and their male counterparts by their consent as ‘sexual violence’, which in itself is an attack on the freedom of young people. Not only does it fail to ban the mortifying ‘two-finger test’, its definition of rape actually legitimises it, in the name of “penetration for medical purposes”.

The shoddily-drafted and anti-women law, enacted stealthily before any citizen of the country could analyse it, is not only a disservice to the painstakingly prepared Justice Verma Report but a breach of trust that was bestowed on the lawmakers by the innocent citizens.

As long as the key issues regarding the safety of women are neglected, their autonomy and rights will continue to remain imperilled in the prisons of patriarchy.

Catching crime in the city

Posted by ABC Friday, 19 April 2013 0 comments


The brutal assault and rape of a five year old girl in Delhi have stirred up the bitter memories that the incident of horrific gang rape of ‘Nirbhaya’ left behind. Once again humanity has been stained and scarred and it seems the graph plotting the crime rate in India is attaining steeper slopes. Even a whisper of attention to the gruesome incident that has come to light is sufficient to scare one out of his/her skin. Even demons would tremble to indulge in such shameful acts, leaving an innocent child soaked in her blood with ligature marks all over her body and soul. It seems we have failed to learn any lesson from the ‘Nirbhaya’ incident and this dastardly act underscores our failure in implementing the ‘stringent’ laws and the Police reforms. The cowardly and unprofessional way in which the Police have dealt with the protesters, particularly the females, is a grim reminder of the fact that nothing substantial has been accomplished in making the city safe for its citizens.

It has become a standard practice in our country. Be it a case of sexual assault, crime against the elderly, an acid attack on females or human trafficking, the politicians have only limited words to convey,

“We strongly condemn this barbaric incident of crime and we assure all our dear citizens that necessary stringent measures will be adopted immediately to punish the guilty”.
This time too, had it not been because of the intense media pressure, the perpetrator of crime would have been absconding the Police personnel accused of assaulting the protestors would have gone away with freely.

If the lawmakers and the guardians of the society stoop to such low levels and indulge in such undignified activities, where and to whom will an aam aadmi plead his case?
Neither the words of condemnation by the political class not the condolences doled out by the media persons are an answer to this ever increasing menace of crime against women. The need of the hour is to revamp our punitive system and strengthen the laws right from the grassroot level. It is incumbent on our lawmakers to put their words to action. We need stringent laws to safeguard our citizens, particularly the females from the claws of the perverted minds prowling the roads of our country in sheep’s clothing. It is necessary to instil the fear of law in their mind so that it renders all potential criminals incapable of even contemplating such monstrous acts. The social strata to which an individual belongs or his/her economic condition should not by any means become an obstacle in the path of justice. It is high time the Police are sensitized to the plight of innocent citizens for whom the Police and the Almighty are the only supreme powers that can protect them from atrocities.


Let us shun all our inhibitions and pledge to stand by our brethren in their thick and thin, to experience the same gamut of emotions when anyone of them is hurt and to make their cause our own and struggle with them with determination. Let us make this nation a heavenly place to live -  for you, for me and for the entire human race.

JAI HIND

The Letter

Posted by ABC Monday, 1 April 2013 0 comments
“I simply want to live, to cause no evil to anyone but myself.”  
                                                   - Leo Tolstoy, War and Peace

Unarguably, a war has no actual winner. All that a war brings with it is colossus death and destruction. 

This is a fictitious letter from a soldier to his wife that brings out his agony and emotions who struggles between life and death in the battlefield.



Dear Braveheart

A fight is on across the border, a hated deadly fight. It feels as if a threatening, slow-moving monster is gradually approaching towards our territory and frightening everyone in its way. A miasma of fear has suffused the battlefield and there is plundering and marauding on both sides. Even our Commander feels short of breath and his encouraging appeals sound completely out of place. This is perhaps my last letter to you. My tank has been hit by a torpedo and I have been injured badly. There are faeces and corpses all around me. But I must thwart the attack on the dignity of my mother, my nation. I wish I could!

It is unbearably hot and my throat has been parched to dryness. I feel emaciated in this scorching heat and am lying in a pool of sweat and blood, languishing among the corpses that look like large motionless lizards. I am writhing in excruciating pain, begging for a few drops to water to quench my thirst. I wish I had something to eat, but it is just impossible. The bullets that have pierced into my flesh have disabled me to run for my life. I find it difficult to even crawl and meander a way through the debris to a ‘safe’ place. How destructive a war can be!

As I straddle life and death, I feel compelled to ruminate over the worth of triumph in such a war that has caused colossus damage to both the sides, the massive bloodshed and widespread killing of innocent people and the destruction that has been caused to the infrastructure. Is there an actual winner in this war, I wonder!

Indeed, this war has left an indelible impression in my mind, ripped my heart apart and left me scarred. There is nobody to mourn the death of those who have sacrificed their lives for their land. There is no priest to chant divine words for the peace of the departed souls. Instead, salvos are being fired upon us and our misery has become a reason for celebration for the hostile enemy forces.

Your portrait is lying on my chest and I am peeping into your golden eyes. Pardon me for leaving you bereaved. I shall carry the burden of this guilt like the chains of a prisoner. May the force be with you to and give you the strength to face this challenge. I'm afraid you won’t probably get a chance to lament at my grave.

Will I have a grave?

*The soldier succumbed to his injuries a day after he wrote this letter.

Today is the day

Posted by ABC Thursday, 2 August 2012 1 comments

Ripened by age but driven by his determination,
He aspires to make India a corruption free nation;
Anna Hazare, a brave soldier struggling sans sword,
Commands thy strength and support as his reward;
To awaken and enlighten each citizen and stir a revolution,
Against condemnable malpractices like rampant corruption;
A lethal menace that has pervaded deep into our society,
Widening the gaps, inducing a sense of fear and anxiety;
The fear of failures and retarded growth and development,
That might propel us to the path of shame and embarrassment;
The anxiety of losing the nation in the hands of corrupt leaders,
Who have invaded our lives, carrying out loot and plunder;
We, who have for long basked in the glory of India’s past,
Have indeed endangered its future, succumbing to blasts;
The blasts of scams and scandals, striking one after the other,
Have vandalized our country, compelling us to sob and suffer;
“Thoust existence on Earth should not go in vain”, Anna proclaims,
Fighting for a corruption free nation should be thy primary aim;
The corrupt and underachievers have polluted the political arena,
It’s time to safeguard the nation and fight with valor and stamina;
Let all countrymen unite irrespective of their caste, religion or creed,
And support a strong Jan Lokpal Bill, to rise, prosper and succeed.

                         

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